Posts Tagged ‘Motivation’

Vote for Change

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010 by Nicola Marshall

There’s of course much said at the moment about the election and a chance for change.  It would seem remiss of me not to comment on this occasion!  I’m not going to talk about politics though, you may be pleased to know, but CHANGE.

Many are sceptical about the change that may come from our next Prime Minister and Government but it occurred to me – what of the change in our own lives?  If you had the chance to put a cross in the ballot box of your life, in terms of your choices, what would come out top I wonder?  Would your career choice be top?  Relationships?  Where you live?  What you spend your time doing and thinking about?

For me it raises the question of how change really happens.  We can want change, and many of us may say we want things to be different, but unless we do something – vote with our feet as such – the results are the same – we stay the same.  As the well-known saying goes “you can’t keep doing the same things and expect different results”.

As with voting in the election we need to actually do something to make the vote count.  We can say yes I want ’so and so’ to win, but without our cross in the box we are just dreaming and wasting our time dreaming.  It also occurs to me that for some of us we need to consider what we are saying no to when we say yes to change.  For example you may really want a fulfilling career, but in order to go for that you have to say no to fear and insecurity around money.  If you want a full social life you have to say no to pride and to that big box in the corner of the room!

Click the picture below to watch a short video that I like about change:-

Be the change that you want to see

So my Vote for Change today is going to be to make sure I really want the things I say I want.  If I do, then I need to do something about it.  It may mean talking to someone; a friend, a coach, a mentor.  It will mean being serious about your life and taking hold of the decisions and actions once and for all.  To Vote for Change and see the results you want you must take action.  Motivation is said to mean motive in action – be clear on what you want and do something about it!

How desperate are you?

Thursday, May 6th, 2010 by Nicola Marshall

The word desperate has been playing on my mind recently – one of my kids is always “desperate” for something – “bursting to go to so and so’s house”, or “desperate for a biscuit” – it makes me laugh but recently it’s also made me stop and think – what does it mean to be really desperate for something?

On the other extreme I’ve just finished reading a harrowing book “Someone to love me” about two boys put into foster care back in the 1940’s and who were subsequently brutally abused and neglected, ending in one boys death.  It’s not a pleasant story, shocking at how people can treat others in that way and amazingly how children can survive in such terrible circumstances.  Terry O’Neill the writer talks of the desperate starvation he and his brother experienced every day and the gut wrenching fear at what might happen – definitely desperate times for them!

We are all aware of the basic needs we have – to be fed, clothed, sleep, comfort but what of the other things – of companionship, achievement, pride, laughter, stimulation, health, spirituality – how desperate are those needs to be met in us?

I often feel there are levels of emotions we never quite get to – they’re hiding underneath the things we feel comfortable with – but they’re there.  We don’t want to look at them in ourselves as they frighten us.  If we really had a look what would we find?  Fear, despair, ugliness, power, resilience, strength of character we never knew existed in us.

Against the oddds

Against the oddds

There are many stories of people experiencing and surviving through desperate circumstances, and then there’s the daily chore of life – for some of us we may be experiencing desperate times right now – whether they are visible to people or not.

So what’s the message in these short ramblings today?  It’s often said that the journey is more important than the destination and I think that’s true of our search to satisfy that desperation in us.  Maybe today you need a pit stop along the way to really reflect on where you’re at – what are you desperate for?  For others it may be a slow cruise through a treacherous, difficult mountain road where you are aware of what’s needed in your life and you are treading carefully.  For others it may be time to step up a gear – take a risk and speed ahead – let the desperation of whatever it is drive you to find what you’re looking for.

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