Posts Tagged ‘change’

To bee or not to bee…

Sunday, May 16th, 2010 by Nicola Marshall
To bee or not to bee

To bee or not to bee

“According to all known laws of aviation, there’s no way a bee should be able to fly. Its’ wings are too small to lift its’ fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyway – because bees don’t care what humans think is impossible.”

The opening words of Bee Movie – a great film and a great thought….are there things we do that we’re not ‘supposed’ to do, that to all intents and purposes seem impossible?

There are many times when I think that human beings are amazing – sometimes even that I am amazing!  I know – “how vain” but it’s true – to be able to take on the things we do every day, to be able to face adversity sometimes and come through, to be able to laugh at those seemingly insignificant moments in life, like when we catch someone singing their heads off in the car, or tripping over and then recovering like it never happened.

The Bee Movie is all about breaking the mould, being able to step out and be different to the norm – to what people say we should be and should be able to do.  The main character is desperate to have some excitement in his life – he doesn’t want to do the same job all his life (as short as that life is for bees).  I’ve recently got involved in a job club and it’s really made me consider the times we’re in at the moment.  There seem to be no secure jobs anymore – people who’ve never written CVs or had interviews as they went straight from school to a ‘job for life’ then at 50+ with no job and seemingly no prospect of a job.

Whether you’re in that position of wanting a secure, reliable job or indeed wanting to do something different the point of the Bee Movie still applies.  You can do what seems impossible but a new way of thinking will be needed.  May be this is the time to do what you’ve always longed to do?  A friend asked a question this week to the facebook world – “do I choice meaningful, profitable or fun?” a great question and one which we could all do with thinking about.

So what have you been told you could never do?  How do you feel about that now?  Could this be the time to test that theory – ignore what they say and go for the impossible.

Vote for Change

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010 by Nicola Marshall

There’s of course much said at the moment about the election and a chance for change.  It would seem remiss of me not to comment on this occasion!  I’m not going to talk about politics though, you may be pleased to know, but CHANGE.

Many are sceptical about the change that may come from our next Prime Minister and Government but it occurred to me – what of the change in our own lives?  If you had the chance to put a cross in the ballot box of your life, in terms of your choices, what would come out top I wonder?  Would your career choice be top?  Relationships?  Where you live?  What you spend your time doing and thinking about?

For me it raises the question of how change really happens.  We can want change, and many of us may say we want things to be different, but unless we do something – vote with our feet as such – the results are the same – we stay the same.  As the well-known saying goes “you can’t keep doing the same things and expect different results”.

As with voting in the election we need to actually do something to make the vote count.  We can say yes I want ’so and so’ to win, but without our cross in the box we are just dreaming and wasting our time dreaming.  It also occurs to me that for some of us we need to consider what we are saying no to when we say yes to change.  For example you may really want a fulfilling career, but in order to go for that you have to say no to fear and insecurity around money.  If you want a full social life you have to say no to pride and to that big box in the corner of the room!

Click the picture below to watch a short video that I like about change:-

Be the change that you want to see

So my Vote for Change today is going to be to make sure I really want the things I say I want.  If I do, then I need to do something about it.  It may mean talking to someone; a friend, a coach, a mentor.  It will mean being serious about your life and taking hold of the decisions and actions once and for all.  To Vote for Change and see the results you want you must take action.  Motivation is said to mean motive in action – be clear on what you want and do something about it!

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